girl the mic was dropped a long time ago, please go to the back of the room and have several seats.
you’re late and I won’t entertain stupidty any longer. Continue to make yourself a victim in this world. I’m not here to save you, just here to let you know that as a woman YOU DO HAVE SOME RESPONSIBLITY IN HOW PEOPLE WILL TREAT YOU BASED ON HOW YOU DRESS.
You and your friends logic is stupid, your refuse to accept reality and that in the end falls on you. If you want to leave it up to a predator to decide if they’re going to rape you or not because you make it too easy then once again I cannot change that and that’s on you.
and boo boo, it’s save a HOE or simply HO if you must, not whore. (Also I meant pecanbooty, but hey if the shoe fits right?) remember you and your friend messaged ME and not the other way around. Not my fault if it wasn’t the answer your or her wanted/were expecting.
Now pick a direction behind me and fall ALLLLLLLL THE WAYYYYYYYYYYY BACCKKKKKKKK.
clair you’re always amazing. just wanted to re-emphasize something you said.
individuals DO have the power to do something about it.
If you see something you have a problem with, raise your voice. Question why people respond to things in the way they do and try to affect change in yourself and the people around you.
Slut shaming is saying, “protect yourself the world isn’t safe.” and it won’t be safe unless we make it safe. So support women wearing what they want. They SHOULD feel safe wearing whatever they like. BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD.
You tumblr activist amuse me. You take a simple warning to watch out as a condemnation on your lifestyle.
You know what im done,
YOU BITCHES ARE LOST,
YESS. BE A FORCE FOR CHANGE BUTTTTTT UNTIL THAT CHANGE OCCURS DONT BE STUPID AND HOPE YOUR BELIEFS PROTECT YOU.
continue to deny reality. live in lala land where theres dirt and glitter on the floor and miley cyrus’ bangerz playin in the background. Im sure you guys think SHES a great role model too. *eyeroll*
Okay I’m laughing too hard now- the previous poster is a man so I don’t think he’s taking anything personally.
Spencer! Stop living your scantily clad lifestyle and idolizing Miley Cyrus. You need Jesus.
c-i-k, PLEASE do some independent research on rape culture. Please read about the slut walks. TALK to survivors. Really listen to them. You will discover that when rape is concerned, clothing doesn’t even matter. Rapists are sick people. They don’t care if you’re stark naked or wearing 2 sweatshirts over 2 pairs of sweatpants. It doesn’t matter if you’re thin or fat or even sexually interested in their gender. If they want to rape you, they will try to.
Don’t be a rape apologist. You’re better than that.
Protect rape survivors! Don’t tell them what to wear. Don’t be a bystander. Don’t say, “She was asking for it.” (Don’t forget about male rape victims, either!)
I know you’re better than that.
Hell, my mother is. And she’s a 60 year-old moderate conservative. So it’s not as “generational” as you would like to believe.
We’re not denying reality! We’re embracing it. And changing it. Not hiding from it. SO many people have told you that your stance is wrong. It’s not because anyone hates you. It’s because we CARE deeply. Sexual violence is so prevalent in today’s world- partly because of deeply ingrained attitudes similar to yours.
And we were just talking about this the other day lol
Don’t fucking tell me what to wear, or how to act you moldy turd face.
I’m so completely baffled by how horrendously uneducated people are about sex crimes. If you’re going to hold an opinion on something, especially when it involves 1 OUT OF 3 women (I am unable to comment on male and trans* victims in terms of an accessible statistic, for this I apologize). 1/3 33.33% of the population of women - this has nothing to do with what you wear, where you go, walking home alone at night, etc. THIS IS NOT VIOLENT CRIME. These are SEX crimes, which are totally completely different than any fucking other form of crime. What motivates sex crimes is NOT what motivates violent crime. In the US there are 232 registered sex offenders per 100,000 (716750 NATIONALLY) and considering the conviction rate, you can assume that the number of perpetrators of sex crimes is EASILY twice that number.
I wish I could find the interview done by several convicted, incarcerated violent sex offenders interviewing one another on what they looked to find in their respective victims - because I think it would illustrate this point clearer than any article I can dig up. These people have high recidivism rates, they are in many cases mentally unbalanced, VIOLENT, REOFFENDING, MONSTERS. It has NOTHING to do with vulnerable, exposed men, women, and non-binary folk. You are thinking about VIOLENT CRIME which is SEPARATE from SEX CRIME.
I’m sorry for the ensuing caps lock but if you don’t have a degree in forensic psychology get the fuck out of this debate. You know fucking NOTHING. To all my other survivors here who’s comments I can’t even see, I’m here for you. Fuck this triggering bullshit from pubescent girls who have no concept of sex crime motive. Above and beyond this obvious rape-culture bullshit, there are PHYSICAL NEUROLOGICAL DIFFERENCES IN SEX OFFENDERS vs. VIOLENT CRIMINALS. These crimes are committed for different reasons, at the core of the impulse.
excuse me while I flip a fucking table.